Family matters | Step Talk

So we took SD to the pumpkin patch yesterday. Had a good day overall. She had a really good time. On the way home DH gets a call from his grandmother letting him know they were in town and wanted to see SD until 6:30. So we end up at his aunt's house. I really liked his family at first but now its become a chore to spend time with them. But since DH asked me to stay and eat dinner, I went ahead. As soon as DH steps out the door to go drop SD off at BM's workplace, they start badmouthing BM. I have learnt from dealing with his family, they are the world's worst for badmouthing. They had a "talk" with DH a few weeks ago about how they felt SD was too attached to me. Which is retarded. She sees his family once a month maybe. SD sees me on a weekly basis. So yea, when she is in our care, when she's hungry, feeling bad, etc even when we are at family stuff she either goes to DH or myself, whichever one is closer at the time. It's not my fault they aren't around more often. DH told them they didn't need to worry about it. He didn't see any problem. The minute DH left last night, they started in. One would talk about how ugly BM is, how manly she thinks BM is and then the other would say crap about BM's behavior. And I know they turn around and talk bad about me. So I ended up telling both of them that DH is the one that deals with BM not me. I'm not worried about what goes on in her life. As long as SD is being taken care of, DH and I could care less about BM's personal life. I feel like they just want to keep bad feelings stirred up regarding the entire situation. BM is crazy and a control freak but his family doesn't help matter by going back and forth.
I just needed to vent this morning.

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